Family life… we all have had our visions or day dreams as children of life once we got on our own, and most of us pictured our ideal spouse and a family that was in some way the “white picket fence, all american dream”. HaHa! if we only knew that life is far from what we pictured. Life is messy, scary, a little chaotic, and sometimes even difficult and exhausting. the thing is, thats what living is all about! i cherish the little things, and i try to laugh at the mistakes, and learn something from every experience. The good days, and the bad days, they are all important and nothing to be embarrassed about. Though i dont consider myself as old, ive been through so many different experiences that ive got a wide range of knowledge, and funny stories to go along with it. Theres so many things that i wish i’d known at the start & probably would have saved me a few headaches.